That's what Dr. Sanity and I explored this week. After cancer, perforated bowel, Larry's gator trick and Mason's death I feel that I'm finally getting myself back, you know, nearly normal. Whatever that means.
Dr. Sanity suggested that normal is an ever changing thing. I decided that normal means whatever you decide it means and can only belong to you. No one else can decide what your normal is, they just need to worry about getting their own normal.